现代人常说，要在复杂多变的社会中保持内心的平静，找到属于自己的小确幸。而对于追求多元体验的你来说，BDSM文化或许是一个值得探索的新世界。BD并不是你想的那么复杂。打开西檬之家，让我们从娇小与高层开始，一步步深入，了解这个充满魅力的亚文化。
DOM：字母圈的主宰者
分配型角色(task distribution roles)是BDSM实践的基本存在，DOM作为在D/S关系中的控制方，主要任务是倾听Sub的需求、不能欺负对方，因为真正的DOM不是通过虐待来获得快感，而是提供秩序，在SSC框架下与Sub达成共识。
Sub：忠诚的臣服者
Explore the submissive role, which #stands for服从者 in BDM contexts. Not to be confused with masochists who seek pleasure through pain. Learn to differentiate between Submission and Masochism.Systematic approach because these can be easily misused.
BDSM：满足双方的亚文化
BDSM is often complex because it involves multiple elements including a dominant/submissive dynamic along with other activities such as restraints and sensation play, all based on mutual consent. Understanding these can make \"play99 easier.
